4 MAJOR Signs
they're not into you!
Let me start off saying that just because a person is not into you doesn't mean he/she is a bad person. It can be several reasons why they're not. And it doesn't mean that you are a bad person. Sometimes it's clear that a person is interested in you, but it is often the case that a person sends mixed signals as well.
Be
mindful that these signs are some of the many signs that a person is just not
that into you. There are other things you want to consider like if their action
doesn’t matches up with their words, which is something you want to pay
attention and be observant. “The first time
someone shows you who they are, believe them.”~Mayo Angelo
Look
for some good qualities in a person who is
Understanding Appreciative Respectful Caring and kind
Helpful Trustworthy Positive Fun to be around
Knows God-Relationship
Understanding Appreciative Respectful Caring and kind
Helpful Trustworthy Positive Fun to be around
Knows God-Relationship
There
are however, some clear signs they’re not interested. I have listed 4 MAJOR
ones below with some examples:
1. Inconsistent- Inconsistent behavior causes misunderstandings and uncertainty. For example, one minute they call or text you all week and then go a few weeks without contacting you, that’s inconsistency.
1. Inconsistent- Inconsistent behavior causes misunderstandings and uncertainty. For example, one minute they call or text you all week and then go a few weeks without contacting you, that’s inconsistency.
2. Don't make time for you- If they constantly make plans and cancel with never rescheduling it's not a good thing
and if they never pick up the phone to talk, get to know you. It's ok texting someone but if you're interested in getting to know someone do it via talking, it's more personable and sometimes texting can be very misunderstood
3. They don't introduce you to friends and family-
(Over
a period of time)
If they are always around with their friends and family but they don't invite you. It could be uncontrollable things, such as acceptance of them and they don't want to look or feel uncomfortable around them
(they are worried/concerned on how their judged)
4. Conversation- Think about the kind of conversation the two of you have. Do they only talk about themselves? Are they expressing how they feel or mention an interest in you? If this person never asks about you, your life, or your thoughts, then there's a chance they don't much care, and this means you should probably move on and find someone who wants to learn more about you.
If they are always around with their friends and family but they don't invite you. It could be uncontrollable things, such as acceptance of them and they don't want to look or feel uncomfortable around them
(they are worried/concerned on how their judged)
4. Conversation- Think about the kind of conversation the two of you have. Do they only talk about themselves? Are they expressing how they feel or mention an interest in you? If this person never asks about you, your life, or your thoughts, then there's a chance they don't much care, and this means you should probably move on and find someone who wants to learn more about you.
Here
are some other self explanatory sings that they’re not into you:
PAY ATTENTION AND DON’T BE DESPERATE TO SETTLE FOR LESS
PAY ATTENTION AND DON’T BE DESPERATE TO SETTLE FOR LESS
They
maintain physical and emotional distance
They
don’t respond to you right away
They
only call after midnight
They
won't let you leave things at their house
They
won't go out in public with you
They
tell you to date other people
They
won’t make any plans to hang out with out
They give you the feeling that you’re being used
They give you signs that you are one of many options
They don't make it crystal clear just how much you mean to them
They seem moody and only wants to be around you when it suits them
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Love Always,
Tiffany Lael
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