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13 Highly effective ways to gain self VALUE and WORTH!

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    A lot of people truly don't know their worth and value in life. Self worth comes from within; you won’t find it by having more money, having more friends, having the finer things in life. It simply can’t be found from external factors. There is no magical pill for having self value and worth. Not having self value & worth is not a good thing sometimes because it can lead to you being mis lead, used by people and heartache. So I'm going to list 13 HIGHLY effective ways to gain it! Remember that God loves and accepts YOU for who YOU are unconditionally ღ   1. Love yourself unconditionally- When you love yourself unconditionally it makes it easier for you. Despite of your past mistakes and failures in life, gain a sense of unconditional self LOVE. Love your skin color, hair color, eyes and your body. If you have flaws/faults simply work on correcting them. If they can’t be corrected allow God to help with that. Read The Serenity Prayer   God

*TOXIC RELATIONSHIP* 11 Signs that YOU'RE in one and how to get OUT!

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Are you in an unhealthy toxic relationship and don’t know it? A toxic relationship is a unhealthy relationship characterized by negative behaviors on the part of the toxic partner that are emotionally, mentally and physicall y damaging to their partner. This is a very dysfunctional , poisonous and dangerous relationship to be in, it damages your self-esteem and drains your energy. We risk our very being by staying in such a relationship there is no need for you to jeopardize your life or health for being in a toxic relationship. Many of us desire love and intimacy but find our way blocked by the fear of getting hurt, the worry of. Sadly some people think they are in LOVE and have to tolerate it; therefore it makes it harder for a person to walk away. Love is not defined by these negative characteristics and behaviors. Please don’t ignore these signs and keep yourself blinded by this, open your eyes up and pay attention!   Here are 11 signs/behaviors that indicate that YO

"7 Ways to LOVE your single life"

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Everyone desires love and wants to be in a relationship for many different reasons, sadly some of us don't know how to simply enjoy our lives being single. People think there is something wrong with you because you're not in a relationship~that is false; there is nothing wrong with you. Many of us are waiting for the right person and trusting God. I believe that God will provide the wisdom you need to determine your future mate.  You have to open your heart to receive it though; you can do this through prayer. I'm going provide you with some few things that are going to teach you some things you need to know and how to love your life being single! 1. Have a relationship with yourself and God- Having a relationship with yourself is a benefit for you, this is called being your own best friend. Learn about all your flaws and faults, correct some flaws if needed. Enjoy spending times alone.  Once you are successful at spending time alone, you won't fe

5 Things you need to have for a healthy successful relationship.

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There are so many important essential things you need to have in your relationship in order for it to be a healthy and successful one! I want to discuss with you 5 of them: Communication , honesty, trust, respect and understanding. Keep in mind that it takes 100% participation from both partners. Successful relationships involve work; you have to find new ways to keep the true love alive along with these 5 relationship keys.   1. Communication - I can’t stress the importance of communication enough. If you aren’t able to open up and talk about things, than you don’t have a solid relationship. When people have things on their mind and let them go without discussing it, it usually manifests itself elsewhere; this can turn to many other things such as grudges, bitter and resentful towards that person. When you want to have a discussion with your spouse, simply let them know, they can't read your mind. When you are talking to them speak polite with a soft tone; make good ey