Why is it hard for YOU to CHANGE?

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Yes ask yourself that question, Why is it hard for ME to CHANGE? Could it be that you FEAR the unknown of change? Did you know that  FEAR means False Evidence Appearing Real, this is something YOU create in your mind, it doesn't exist so STOP fearing the possibility to CHANGE YOU.
Change is unknown territory and for most people, the unknown is often more frightening than staying where you are in life. People always tell me that change is difficult, I beg to differ CHANGE can be challenging. I believe that is an excuse on why people don't want to make a change. You can do anything you achieve in your mind!


So what are YOU going to do differently? What are YOU going to do to change?  The challenge is HOW to change, not if YOU can change. In order to effectively make change for the best, it has to be consistent. Never ever give up on yourself, stay encouraged at all times have faith and know it is possible to CHANGE. I want to provide you with some effective action steps that you can take to change:

1. Acknowledge: Acknowledge the fact that you want to change. You can't change what you don't acknowledge and it's hard to change what you don't measure. Write down what you want to change within yourself or your life, visualize it and brand it in your mind.

2. Allow God to help you with this process: Pray with an open heart filled with faith for God to help with you with the change(s) you want to make. Specifically ask God to mold, shape you into the person you want/need to be for him and for yourself in addition to the other changes you want to achieve. Give him all the control!

3. Commitment: Creating a commitment to what you want to achieve and this ensures that you stay focused on your vision/goal. With every action you take, ask yourself if it is consistent with what you want to achieve. Will it help you achieve the end results you want? 

4. Believing: There is nothing greater than believing in yourself, knowing YOU can accomplish this, be STRONG and have a PURPOSE for the change. Be confident, determined and think positive and maintain a positive attitude.
 
5. Continuously improve: There is no finish line and no final destination meaning, it is going to be a challenge everyday do not stop! Let no one or nothing stop YOU from making a positive change. If you fall get up, brush yourself off and keep going. Always keep going YOU CAN DO IT! You will have an everlasting outcome, the key is to make a small change everyday.


  "IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO CHANGE"
Remember in order to see change around YOU, you have to be the one to change!

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 Love Always, 

Tiffany Lael

“If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.” Maya Angelou


Comments

  1. SPMay 6, 2011 at 9:29 PM

    loved it...so powerful & great advice that anyone can relate to their day-to-day lives!!!-SP

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  2. AnonymousJune 5, 2011 at 11:54 PM

    Great inspiration...Definitely gives you a new outlook on situations that occur in life-Kitten

    ReplyDelete
  3. RartajahAugust 11, 2011 at 7:54 PM

    I will change starting NOW!

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