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When life happens we simply can choose to let it affect us or we accept it, we do have choices on what and how we feel about it. We are affected by the circumstances it has caused, but have you chosen to get over it and move on? What I mean by acceptance is the fact that this has occurred. I know when life (things) happens, we can get angry, confused, stress, emotionally unbalanced, hurt, sad, bitter etc. But we have to rise above those feelings. Most times we don’t understand or realize ”why has this happened to me” do you believe that everything happens for a reason? Ask yourself that. Did you ever feel like you’re stuck or can’t move because of what has occurred when life happens? Let me be the first to tell you, YOU CAN MOVE ON! Me personally I’ve been faced and challenged in life when things happened that I had no control over or didn’t see coming, so I want to share with you how I choose and apply things in life that helped me get through it. Practice this ...

 I see so much going on in this world and many are not focused on their lives like how we are suppose to be. GET YOUR MIND RIGHT AND LIVE, you simply have to take the time to focus on your priorities in your life! Until you get your mind right you'll never be able to get your life right. Sadly many are worried or concerned with things that don’t even make a difference in their lives, we are too concerned with drama, issues, gossip and other things that don’t pertain to self-growth. I want to strongly encourage you to stop it immediately. I understand there are many distractions that can occur daily with social media, entertainment and unexpected circumstances. I know how easily it is to get "caught up" in it. But you have to think, isn't there more to life than just this?  YES THERE IS. Start surrounding yourself with positive things and people, pick up a book or read an article that reflects some type of personal self growth and edu...

Self love next to God’s love is truly the best. There is nothing like loving and accepting yourself. Many are seeking completeness from others without realizing you have to complete you with LOVE first! This is very crucial in life as it helps boost self-confidence. You should have so much love in your heart for yourself, where you can heal yourself along with God’s help. I have listed 9 great ways to help you get some SELF LOVE. 1. Give yourself compliments daily~ Look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself how beautiful you are (build your self esteem) Pat yourself on the back with your successful accomplishments thus far! 2.  Accept who you are~ There are many things we can’t change within ourselves such as your skin color for example learn to accept who you are, God created you so you’re just right. Remember no one is perfect aiming for perfection is a loss so please don’t do it! 3.  Stop comparing~ Sadly many of us have done this time an...

That's right start NOW, stay FOCUSED and finish STRONG. Have you ever found yourself not being focused on your priorities in your life? Many of us all go through this at some point. It is people out there that have goals, dream and visions and they just don't know how to prioritize their life to create things in order to make it happen. Staying focused can be a difficult task at times, but it can be overcome once you practice methods daily to implement it.   You truly have to invest in some time and work and not make any excuses. Ask yourself do you really want to become something/someone and be great and succeed at it?  This world is so full of distractions, we tend to lose track of time, and our goals and we don't know how to manage our time effectively. I personally know how and what it means to lose track of time, get caught up on things that didn’t benefit me in life and made excuses. I stopped it once I realized I had a purpose to fulfill in life and wanted ...

Many people have commitment issues for several different reasons. It can be due to negative experiences and beliefs and both sexes can suffer from commitment phobia.   What is commitment?  Commitment is a promise which two people make to each other explicitly – verbally or implied – by action. You commit to only dating each other and not seeing other people in a romantic way. You are committed to care for each other and to support each other. When you and your partner are committed to each other, there would be no uncertainty in your relationship. Together you commit to growing together as a couple, and walking the path of life together, hopefully leading to marriage if that’s what you both desire. Realistically the only way to have a healthy relationship is for both partners to be equally committed. There’s nothing better than feeling the companionship , friendship , sharing , and love that a secure and loving relationship can bring. Now there may be times i...

 At times in life, we get so caught up with our busy lifestyles we never take the time to sit and simply relax and renew our spirits. Many don’t know the importance of the fact that we need to slow down sometimes to have peace and find balance in our lives accordingly. Renewing your mind, body and spirit is so important in your life. It’s 2011 and everyone has cell phones, IPods, Computers and IPads learn to turn them off for a while and get in tune with self not so much technology and the world. Invest in your family, spend real quality time with them, invest in you read a book to educate yourself for self growth and wisdom, wisdom has no age limit. Remember you make time for what you want spend it wisley because we don’t get time back! People may think it can be challenging to renew our spirit with chaos in your life, but it’s not, here is 9 simple ways to renew your spirit I pray this blesses you. 1. Walk with God~ nothing will restor...