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That's right start NOW, stay FOCUSED and finish STRONG. Have you ever found yourself not being focused on your priorities in your life? Many of us all go through this at some point. It is people out there that have goals, dream and visions and they just don't know how to prioritize their life to create things in order to make it happen. Staying focused can be a difficult task at times, but it can be overcome once you practice methods daily to implement it.   You truly have to invest in some time and work and not make any excuses. Ask yourself do you really want to become something/someone and be great and succeed at it?  This world is so full of distractions, we tend to lose track of time, and our goals and we don't know how to manage our time effectively. I personally know how and what it means to lose track of time, get caught up on things that didn’t benefit me in life and made excuses. I stopped it once I realized I had a purpose to fulfill in life and wanted ...

Many people have commitment issues for several different reasons. It can be due to negative experiences and beliefs and both sexes can suffer from commitment phobia.   What is commitment?  Commitment is a promise which two people make to each other explicitly – verbally or implied – by action. You commit to only dating each other and not seeing other people in a romantic way. You are committed to care for each other and to support each other. When you and your partner are committed to each other, there would be no uncertainty in your relationship. Together you commit to growing together as a couple, and walking the path of life together, hopefully leading to marriage if that’s what you both desire. Realistically the only way to have a healthy relationship is for both partners to be equally committed. There’s nothing better than feeling the companionship , friendship , sharing , and love that a secure and loving relationship can bring. Now there may be times i...

 At times in life, we get so caught up with our busy lifestyles we never take the time to sit and simply relax and renew our spirits. Many don’t know the importance of the fact that we need to slow down sometimes to have peace and find balance in our lives accordingly. Renewing your mind, body and spirit is so important in your life. It’s 2011 and everyone has cell phones, IPods, Computers and IPads learn to turn them off for a while and get in tune with self not so much technology and the world. Invest in your family, spend real quality time with them, invest in you read a book to educate yourself for self growth and wisdom, wisdom has no age limit. Remember you make time for what you want spend it wisley because we don’t get time back! People may think it can be challenging to renew our spirit with chaos in your life, but it’s not, here is 9 simple ways to renew your spirit I pray this blesses you. 1. Walk with God~ nothing will restor...

  That’s right; don’t settle for less when you deserve nothing but the best for you in life. Many people have settled for less than they deserve in their lives for many reasons, such as just being comfortable and content with where they are, not knowing their value or worth and not knowing that there is other great things out there for them or acting out of FEAR (False Evidence Appearing Real) just to name a few. Often we don’t know what’s out there that’s better for us because we choose to close our eyes to a Person or something without knowing greater things do exist.  Open your mind and heart to explore other avenues in your life. Of course we can create our own plan and path but let’s not lead on our own understanding and allow God to direct our paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.)  Sometimes you have to forget what y...

At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don't give up! I know there are many people out there that are unemployed, homeless, hungry and struggling to pay bills, struggling to hold a marriage and or a family together. But don’t give up; God has bought you this far so please believe that he won’t let you down. I want you to know that I know what it feels like to struggle, to be broke, living pay check to pay check, I have had family problems, relationship problems. I know what if feels like to want to give up, quit, frustrated, tired, alone and scared of the unknown. I felt that way before in my life. I want to encourage you that once I started getting back into the word and maintaining a relationship with God, I haven’t felt that way since. I have turned my tests to testimonies; I turned my weakness into strength! GOD IS MY ROCK AND MY FORTRESS AND MY DELIVERER Psalms 18:2. I will never give up let me tell you why, I told myself and branded in my mind,...

Many people who start relationships go into them, making many mistakes some known and some unknown. We all make common mistakes, some learn from them some don’t. You want to go into a relationship with a healthy and conscious mind. In addition to knowing what you want out of the relationship. I want to help you prevent some common relationship mistakes I will also provide 1 out of many possible solutions for it.  1. Seeking to change that person~ People think just because you’re now in a relationship with them, you have more power to change them. NOT GOING TO HAPPEN! You can’t change them, people can only change themselves. You can only make suggestions for them on certain behavior and things that you don’t like about them. Stop trying to tell them how to dress, how to walk, talk, whom to hang out. The solution: Love them, as they were when you were dating or release yourself from the relationship if you aren’t happy with them. You can only change you and have hopes they...

  Everyone has some type of problem or disagreement in a relationship. How exactly are you handling them? What are you doing to resolve them?   Sadly many of us don’t know what to do or how to solve them . Most relationship problems stem from poor communication skills, effective communication is the key! The fact is that every marriage/relationship experiences problems, couples that are successful have learned how to manage them and keep their love life going. Every problem should be tackled right away with a solution and sometimes if there is no agreement that is meet; come to an agreement to disagree. Don’t run from the problems, because if they are unsolved they can lead to many different things such as anger towards them, resentfulness, and infidelity so simply resolve them! Remember small problems that aren’t resolved can lead to a big major one, and you want to prevent that from happening.   Here are some tips that can help you res...

Many people if not everyone truly desires LOVE , it’s all we need they say. Sadly many of us don’t know what it really is, and that’s a problem. We love based on feelings and emotions that can change from one moment to the next. God’s love, self love and love in a relationship can all be a beautiful thing if you have all 3 together. If you say, “I love you” to someone truly mean it; in addition show it with your actions, which speaks louder! How many times have you heard or said, "I love you because you are cute/handsome;" or "I love you because you take good care of me”? That is not an example of real love. If you don’t mean it don’t say it, don’t abuse these 3 words. An example of real love is simply unconditional love . Here is 3 things that you need for real LOVE. God’s Love: Seek his LOVE first. God’s love is unconditional and it's not based on feelings or emotions. He doesn't love us because we're lovable or because we make Him feel good; He love...

    A lot of people truly don't know their worth and value in life. Self worth comes from within; you won’t find it by having more money, having more friends, having the finer things in life. It simply can’t be found from external factors. There is no magical pill for having self value and worth. Not having self value & worth is not a good thing sometimes because it can lead to you being mis lead, used by people and heartache. So I'm going to list 13 HIGHLY effective ways to gain it! Remember that God loves and accepts YOU for who YOU are unconditionally ღ   1. Love yourself unconditionally- When you love yourself unconditionally it makes it easier for you. Despite of your past mistakes and failures in life, gain a sense of unconditional self LOVE. Love your skin color, hair color, eyes and your body. If you have flaws/faults simply work on correcting them. If they can’t be corrected allow God to help with that. Read The Serenity Prayer ...